Some of my alts are failed relationships, left on servers I was driven to due to shutdowns or random motivational drives. Including wanting to see people RP, or even the bloggers guild Single Abstract noun. My intentions were there, just not the drive.
Some alts are from failed relationships “Hey lets level together to get to know each other.” Of course they are on some obscure server because your mains are on different realms and to be ‘fair’ or to add extra ‘fun’ and a ‘challenge’ you roll on a completely new realm ( however that means that when it doesn’t work out you are left abandoned in Strangtlethorn vale on a strange realm crying into your crappy level cloak ” I didn’t really want to be your pocket healer anyway” ( ok that was a slight exaggeration )
But there have been alts with friends, starting zones worked through for kicks. My I want to be a gnome priest phase ( for a day) the I want yet another baby tank so I can tank lobie instances again. My early toons I rolled on the server of my RL friends until I found what what exactly went on, on a pvp realm. ( things have changed a little)
But when leveling together, be it with friend or potential future foe, first there is a discussion on what class and role you both shall pick. The tank/healer combo is cute but one time I rolled a hybrid with the idea of being dps – ” I need heals.. I need heals..” So I reluctantly but away my lightening bolt and used my healing surge and became the unwilling pocket healer while he got to have all the smash and slash fun. It will last longer if your both having fun.
My first Warrior Tank that I rolled with a friend I HAD to be the Tank – that was the point. My friend went heals, and we had a lot of fun until time zone differences meant I couldn’t play my new exciting project as much as I liked, and I rolled a 2nd warrior tank. ( I was a terrible friend)
But because of that I think it’s important to have a side project you can focus on, otherwise if you are having too much fun on a new class and you want to see what amazing new ability your going to get next you may do something like roll another tank and forget that sometimes the best bit about leveling together isn’t the dinging.
Once you have your class and races sorted ( usually easier if you pick the same race /close enough to run to race. Then begins the profession negotiation.
This is made a little harder now because Mining and herbing gives you xp, but skinning doesn’t. A gathering profession can be quite profitable if your going around questing anyway, but it also means you get more xp then your leveling partner, and you might not ding together.
People also have different questing styles. Some people will read the quest text, and pay attention to the story line ( not me – I skim the important bits) and others ( me) are already racing to the next bit, the consequences is that because of your impatience you miss out on funny bits, and important story explanations, or worse you start the next part of the quest chain and end up activating an event ( because you didn’t read the quest telling you it would happen) I didn’t realise I did this so much until I played with someone who did take the time to read, and enjoy the story line.
I have hoped I have slowed down a little. I do have a tendency to go all speedy Gonzalez in a quest area. It’s why I suddenly ‘grew’ a level 63 Worgen on Frostmourne. I explained my speed as ‘efficient leveling practices’ but the reality is I speed through stuff – did what would give me the most xp – questing with Bg’s, Dungeons, Mining, herbing, and Archeology. It meant I left zones halfway through and bg’s where we were getting farmed with 20 min left to go. I didn’t pay as much attention as I could have.
So leveling together is a little bit of a negotiation, and am glad to say I have probably been a lot more aware of what I’m doing through the Undead starting areas so far.